It won't be easy. See where it goes. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only.
I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. The history of racism and violence is upsetting. I don't think I could let that happen. It's like talking to a wall.
I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. Stick around on this sub. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for. Ladies, doctor's are definitely not all they're cracked up to be. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. I fully understand the fact that I need to do those things so I can accomplish my dream. And here's a fabulous musical explanation of how the church came to franchise it's ecclesiastical services and doctrinal instruction in a process known as correlation.
I would also say that this is the most stressful point in their lives. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. My dream in life as cliche as it sounds is to be happy, and to raise a family - be one of those home mums who goes to school meetings, and award nights, and bakes cakes for their kids school fares. I am hopeful and do feel some healing.