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I feel to say, if you hear this, Amy, in time, it will all come round right. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop. He is married to his job right now. Ask her on dates. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. Ladies, doctor's are definitely not all they're cracked up to be. Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. His hospital "family" protected this information well, silently acquiescing and even approving his behavior. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up.
I think your response is Bang on. That deal with polygamy explained. Love is what we do, not what we feel. Additionally, just as corporate cultures exist, so does it exist for every family. Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read.