There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.
Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. I was sure I was just over sensitive until I read your posts. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. Do you want to be married in the temple. Let me tell you, it is NOT any easier. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. Both independent and had the same life goals, family life plans etc.
They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man. Apr 4, 0. It is soooo difficult to cope. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. I'm a single, financially independent woman. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too. I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this.
Why is it up to the wife or girlfriend to make it work and face being lonely forever. The church is very important to her. Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon.